MJ: a pedophile 'til death

You think it right. I am not lamenting over the death of a person like the self-proclaimed king of pop, Michael Jackson. He may have hit songs during his time but the lawsuit against him divided the world into two sides -- to believe the accusations or not.

I still believe that Jackson was a pervert. A person who was sexually attracted to children. His aggressive actions were unacceptable and have turned me to dislike everything about him and that include his talents.

While most of you are saddened by his death, there is no such emotion in me. Am I happy that he died at the age of 50? I say not at all. His song somehow healed the world and I hope he was healed by it, too.

Your PS3 SOURCE

Various of gaming systems are now soaring high and reaching most households. Each of us has our own favorite when it comes to what game to play as well as the system we use. Some of us enjoys X-box. Others prefer playstation. My nephew is a playstation buff. His family owns most of the game consoles we see in stores but he is really into playstation. The hubby even tried to persuade him to switch to X-box that they could swap games. It didn't work out.

I have not see nor talk to him for months now. He is busy with his business. I bet he slowed down playing with his games, too. More so, I think he did not update his sony playstation yet.

Well, I just learned about PS3 today while browsing www.thesource.ca. There is a wide selection of PS3 Sony Playstation at the Source by Circuit City. If you love games and want to update your console, check out the website I mentioned above. For sure, you would find it there.

It's father's day!


Today, Sunday, is the day intended to honor the dads in our lives. Father's Day is celebrated on the 3rd Sunday of June. Not only America nor Philippines are celebrating on the same date but there are about 50 countries more.

This morning, I woke up with a text message from my mother in the Philippines. Her message was read as "Happy Father's day to Chad (my husband) and Tommy (my father-in-law). So I responded saying "Please tell dadi "Happy Father's Day".

I am not accustomed with that kind of message from either my parents. Both of them gave me and my siblings a tough love. We never say I love you nor sorry to each other. The discipline they exude to us were more like of a "military discipline". My father was once a member of the Philippine Army for 30 years and that explains why. I would not expound what had happened years ago. Bringing up the past somehow ruins my day.

Not all father-daughter relationships are perfect. Mine is not either. My father and I don't talk as often as I do with my siblings. It's not that we are mad at each other. We are merely not that close. When there is a chance, our words towards one another are insufficient. Never receive a text message nor a call from my own father. Since I was a kid, I could barely recall that we bonded. Sometimes I would ask myself "is he really my biological father?" (though we are look alike) or "why I have him as my father"? Hammer my head for such stupid thoughts.

At the back of my mind, I am thinking that my father feels a bit remorse for everything. I could see the softness in his heart but he'd rather keep it himself. Maybe because he don't want his children to tease (the way he does) him back . Despite of everything, I am still thankful for I have a father like him. He's one of the reasons why I become LIRA.

There would come a time that we're both gonna bond. I dunno know when it's gonna happen. It might be next year through my daughter. Who knows? I just hope.

HAPPY FATHER'S DAY, dy. Though you won't be able to read this (that's why I vented here lol).

Jewelry tips for dummies


In less than a month from now, the hubby and I are celebrating our second wedding anniversary. It seems to me that we've been married for a very long time. Our first wedding anniversary was a bit odd. We were not able to celebrate it alone instead we had a very exhausting yet a blessed day. Yes, we had our baby two days prior to the supposed to be celebration.

The hubby did not not have time to tend to his gift for me. It is understood that he got so excited plus he had to take care both of his babies (me and our daughter).

This year, I think he's gonna make it so special. I dunno what's in-store for me on that day though.

Anyway, let's talk about men in general. Did you know that most of them are dummies when it comes to what women really want or like? They just tend to give something during special occasions without thinking the deeper meaning of it specifically with gemstones or birthstones, I presume. My man is not knowledgeable about such either.

Through Tips for Guys, a section on www.bellatrue.com, I have learned about the right gemstone for a certain wedding anniversary date. My wedding happened in July 7th, so that makes Yellow Sapphire as my traditional wedding anniversary stone.

Of all the types of jewelries, rings play a vital role in each relationship. It starts with the engagement ring as a symbol of a wedding proposal. Wedding ring is the next which is a symbol of genesis, promise and eternity. On the next years of being married, here comes the anniversary ring which I believe symbolizes promise, love and appreciation.

Bellatrue's Tips for Guys has eight more tips for men and I guess for all jewelry dummies. It's great that I was able to access the info. It opened my eyes to understand my significance as a wife, mother and woman and the depth of my individuality.

Furthermore, the tips mentioned on the website would be of great aid to men who value their partners, wives, mothers or the women of their lives.

Invitations for all occasions

A written invitation is a letter asking the recipient to attend a certain occasion. It is very customary for every special occasion such as wedding, birthday and other parties. Invitations can be sent online through e-mails, postal and other ways. In can be made manually or by hand and simply purchase a custom made online.

A custom made invitation is much easier if time does matter. The process is so easy if you would buy it online. You just have to choose from the many available templates. Invitation consultants has by far the most numbers of templates for all occasion just in case you are looking.

I know that Halloween is five months away. Thus, I still believe in "better plan ahead of time". So if you are like me and planning on having a Halloween Party in November, you can now browse for Halloween invitations on www.invitationconsultants.com. The website has over 50 templates to choose from. Each has a unique design with creative messages included. Let me tell you ahead that Invitation Consultants offers free shipping and $5 coupon. Come check it today for more information about the promo.

When there is nothing to do...try answering stupid q's

A friend forwarded this chain email to me. THinking of the past is so fun and just makes me smile. Wanna know? Read below :)

1. Have you thought about an ex today?
: nope

2. Do you consider yourself lucky?
: blessed instead

3. Why did you last cry?
: last night. thought of my dying grandmother

4. Could you cry right now?
: maybe later

5. Do you ever think about stuff and start crying?
: nope

6. Can you walk into a room full of strangers and maintain your confidence?
: most of the time.

7. Where do you go when you want to be alone?
: san nga ba? just anywhere.

8. Your ex runs into you and hugs you, what do you do?
: hmn...surreal. It happened already years back. If it's gonna happen again, I dunno.

9. Would you ever consider adoption?
: yes, my niece.

10. Think back 5 months ago, were you single?
: yes

11. Do you believe that it is best to have a friendship first then love?
: I guess

12. What does your last text message in your inbox say?
: Mama (grandmother) is in the hospital. She is so ill and dying.

13. Are you a party animal or someone who stays at home?
: someone who stays home

14. Do you know how to belly dance?
: I tried before. I guess I still can do it.

15. What plans do you have for tomorrow?
: Just stay home.

Missing the old days

One of hubby's buddies stopped by this afternoon. They don't see each other as often as the old days. John is now working night shift and the hubby is on day shift.

I remember my first months here. John and the rest of the shift mates including their respective families were so supportive of me. Every occasion or even not, they'd make it a point to stop by, if not we'd go stop at their homes and hang out. They knew I was just a newbie here and needed friends.

Now the shift is no longer intact. MOst of the guys are in to different shifts and divisions. It's arduous to bring back the old days. Too complicated for each other's time (that's why John stopped by during work).

Next month is my daughter's first birthday. I am planning to have a small gathering but I doubt it if everybody would come. Time is holding me back.

How I wish there were no changes at all. If I only I could bring back time...

Steel buildings save lives and properties

Buildings should be sturdy and durable. Hence, steel is one of the most important elements in the construction.

Structures can be made with various elements. Some are made of pure steel or metal while others are made of either steel, concrete, brick and wood.

Since hurricane is expected mostly every year, steel buildings and brick-structured houses are customary and standard in the South. It is to prevent massive destruction of properties and loses.

I have seen a lot of damages in my locale after Gustav hit the town. I am just lucky I was under a steel building where a 50Mph or so wind couldn't penetrate.

Best Diet pill store

It's a fact that more or less 50% of Americans are overweight. Majority of these people prefer diet pill than massive exercise to lose weight. Thus, not everyone knows which of which diet pill is best for them. They just tend to keep on buying to the extent of losing money for nothing.

If you are one of the aforementioned persons, it is time for you to log on to www.dietpill.net, get the right information and shop the most affordable and effective diet pill that would work for you. The website has a list of the best diet pill in the market. The list includes descriptions of each product as well as the prices.

Dietpill.net offers free shipping for orders over $75. THis offer is valid within US only. Again, check out the website to know more about the best diet pill as well as the store's other promo.

Weight problem : A new mom's battle and challenge

I have been venting on my blogs about my problem -- weight. For some of you who have not read it, let me share it again.

It started when I got pregnant. I gained too much weight, 17 pounds to be exact. Giving birth and taking care of my baby were I thought the reasons for me to lose weight. Thus, it did not do nothing. Instead, I gained more. So now, I am in the battle of losing it and gaining back the old me.

If you think I have done nothing at all, I regret to tell you but you are wrong. I tried diet but everytime I see ice cream and chocolates during shopping, I can not help myself from buying. Foods help me from the stress of parenting. Adding to that is a plate of rice every meal, basically three times a day. Too much of carbo and sugar made my waist 5 inches bigger. Gym won't work for me either. I can not drive yet and nobody's gonna watch my baby. Too many excuses --valid excuses.

Now, I am challenging myself to work for my weight again. That is through the help of Nustrisystem. I have not started yet. I am planning it as soon as possible.

The video below will show you my past and present weight. Maybe next time, I will film again the result of Nutrisystem.

The cam scandal : lies, immorality, politics, destruction and beyond

under modification...


The scam scandal of actress Katrina Halili and cosmetic surgeon Hayden Kho caused so much blast in the Philippine showbiz industry, government and other sectors.

Let's go from the top. Though I don't have that much information, still I want my expression as a woman, mother and an individual to be written and be read.

About two years ago, Halili and Kho shared a relationship involving sexual intimacy. The actress gave her love and trusted the surgeon believing he was also inlove with her without the knowledge that Kho was filming their shared nights. During the course if their relationship, Kho was/were also involved with the famous celebrity cosmetic surgeon, who is nearly as old as his mother, Dr. Vicki Belo and other celebrities.

So, Halili and Kho's relationship was a lie -- a hidden lie. Later on, Belo was able to discover about his man's affairs. The proofs are the videos stored in Kho's hard drive.

Earlier this year, the sex videos uploaded to different websites were discovered by the public. CD's are also sold in Quiapo. The issue is all over the Philippines and some part of the world.

And now, Halili is seeking justice along with the other (concerned?) politicians. They are in the process of filing various cases against Kho and his mother. Halili's party wants to revoke the surgeons license and pay for the damages done.

Late May, tHe two personalities met in the Senate hearing to give their own speeches and answer one's allegations. According to Kho, he did it under the influence of ecstacy`. He was forced by Halili to use it twice and that Halili had an illegal source. To prove that she didn't use any prohibited drugs, Halili took a drug test and proven negative.

Kho's allegations and speeches are all lies. You are busted man! I have seen this man's interview on TV and he is acting innocent with everything against him. He is pointing different people to answer his psychotic actions. For all I know, he is the one behind all of these. He wants to be the talk of the town. Stupid! Look what you did? You will be liable for everything! hahaha! No mercy for you!

Belo, a woman inlove is still supporting Kho. What a stupid decision. Wake up little woman.

For the Philippine government, why it took years before you have decided to create laws against web pornography? There are so many victims beforehand but you never gave attention to those poor persons. Now you are rushing it because of the celebrities involved. I just hope justice will prevail and not power and money.

Now I'd like to say that I am supporting Halili with this battle.

Bed bug prevention


Couldn't sleep at night? There could be one reason -- bed bugs. This kind of insect is a pest to everyone once it started dwelling our beds. Human blood and other warm-blooded hosts make these pests exist and even double in numbers. THe most annoying part is that bed bug bites are freaking itchy with all the red bumps on the affected areas.

I was a victim back then. Elimination was arduous as my old house had three bedrooms. All were infested. So I decided to burn all the mattresses which cost me a fortune. Afterwhich, I had to do different processes including leaving the house and stay at my parents prior to spraying pesticides. Glad to say that it worked. My old house was free of bedbugs.

So how did I get all those bed bugs? I used to travel a lot when I was working with no bed bugs prevention at all. Didn't know and expected that I brought home bed bugs and fed insects in my house. That was truly a horrible experience for me and I've learned my lesson, that is to bring bed bug bags when I travel or stay in a hotel.

Next year, my family and I are heading to the Philippines for a visit. Bed bugs won't intimidate me from staying in hotels anymore. My 4 pieces of bugzip would shield our luggage. These would play a very important role during the trip. True to what the advertisement is saying, this product is well-made. THe plastic is very shiny and slippery to avoid bed bugs from sticking on the plastic and thick, too. The zipper is tight which I think should be to prevent bugs from getting in. What an ingenius product!!!

That's why if you travel a lot, I suggest that you take bed bug encasement with you to prevent a very horrifying dream of bed bugs.

Please take note of the following when using BUGZIP :

  • Use your two hands and go slowly around corners while zipping to make sure zipper works well. Normally, you will experience a little stiff to zipper at first but the bag softens up nicely after a short while.
  • Just like bed bugs can attach to the outside of luggage, if you REUSE BugZip, you could also bring bed bugs home. Bed bugs can be hiding on the outside of the zipper. It is recommended that the last thing you do before leaving a hotel room is remove your luggage from BugZip and leave the “used” BugZip in the hotel for disposal. If using at home, you can use it as long as you want in one room, but don’t move “used” BugZip bags to other rooms or out of the house so you don’t bring them with you.
More to learn about BugZip at visit www.bugzip.com.